Moving On – Tips to Deal with Your Broken Heart

July 26, 2010 by  
Filed under Dating

Lovelorn individuals dive into emotional roller coasters after sharing break up stories with their friends. What is worst is to offer and receive bad advice on how to deal with the situation from the wrong people. Nowadays the love game is getting younger as 9 year olds are having their own girlfriends. At 9 years old, Alec Greven had written a book called “How to Talk to Girls” received humongous accolades with the New York Bestseller and is touted as one of the most successful self-help writers.

The shared qualities of break up stories are cheating lovers, incompatible lifestyles and even disagreement of family consent. However so, the reason behind the inconsistent feelings in the relationship may vary. There are several tips on how to deal with your broken heart after coming out of a bad relationship.

1. Avoid familiar/regular meeting places

Most couples have their stipulated dating spots, be it a restaurant, a park or a café. The least of these reminiscently-evoking places that you visit, the higher the chances of you getting rid of the memories. In fact, it is better that you look for fresh hangouts as to effectively divert your attention.

2. Work out

A rush of adrenaline helps alleviate ill-feelings and of course, there is no harm in shaping, toning or beefing up. Exercise also relieves the mind and body from concurring emotional stress.

3. Find a replacement

If nothing else goes, there is always the option of stepping back into the dating game, and trying out for the second time. As the saying goes “there are plenty of fishes in the sea.”

All ends well when you have a positive mindset and keep your head up high. Extensive amount of wallowing over the past may result in a depressing scenario and needless to say, nobody wants to end up a loser!